Ocean of Unconditional Love

Leading with the Heart

More than a form of therapy, teaching, instruction, or practice, it is simply a remembrance of our true essence. The nature of the mind is duality- it sees everything as two and therefore as separation (even the brain is divided into two hemispheres!). While duality is necessary for life to be as we know it/perceive it, it is this apparent separation that causes constant suffering and seeking.

The ego isn’t good or bad but rather feels like a separate self somewhere inside the body. It feels separate from others, from life, from its own divinity. It takes itself to be something personal where life seems to be happening to it, experiencing life as something separate from it (subject/object illusion).

The energy that is our true nature can manifest in infinite ways and forms; bodies, trees, thoughts, emotions, etc. One other way that this energy/consciousness can also manifest is through this energetic tension that feels separate, fragmented, unloved, incomplete. It therefore seeks all kinds of external sources in an attempt to find wholeness when in reality itself IS already wholeness. This longing leads to endless seeking that may drop when we exhaust the attempt and effort.

It is only through this surrender that naturally leads us to the opening of the heart; our divinity, the return home to our true essence. Perhaps more appropriately said, it is the remembrance that we never left home! When we lead with the heart we live from a place of unity and therefore unconditional love, peace, freedom, absolute wholeness. We allow the duality to continue its playful dance with the understanding that nothing is missing because there was nothing ever separate in the first place.  

The intention here is not talk therapy (this on its own rarely helps) but go directly to the core of our true being in our day to day life.

I hold one-on-one sessions as well as group gatherings with the only intention of holding a safe space to explore and embrace the Oneness in all. Nothing is required for the being-ness that we are. There is no one or anything to fix or change, nowhere to arrive, and no amount of conceptual knowledge can take us out of suffering. As spiritual beings there is nothing to do, but simply be. The mind/ego that we have identified with never likes to hear this- it always wants the next thing to do, to achieve, to possess. It perceives everything in the linear timeline of progress, improvement, and the endless “next”.

Gradually, a shift in perspective can seem to effortlessly unfold- a life where we discover that self-worth, love, freedom, and completeness never existed out there but in the inner temple of our being.   

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